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boys boys boys

babygem0321
12/02/2009 11:58:00 AM


GUYS   SECRETS



1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.(YEAAAAAAAAH RIGHT????  Parang di ako naniniwala dito?)
2. Guys hate flirts. (What kind of hate do you mean?  Hate like the kind that they won't even interact with girls like those?  Nuh uh!!!!  Eh tuwang-tuwa nga yung iba diyan eh..)
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.
5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they
always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend(ay ako rin, pero i ask all the questions tapos ako rin maiinis after.. LoL).
11. When guys want to meet your parents...let them.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have
one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it
is...drinking!
13. Guys cry!!!
14. Don't provoke the guy to heat up...believe me...he will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this
makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know
what...uh...never mind!"would him jump to a conclusion that is far from
what you are thinking.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged "um"...or makes any excuses when you'reasking him to do you a favor, he's actually
saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow."
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate gays!
25. Guys love their moms.(some guys don't, for some reaaasons)
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of
roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime...he does.(La la la..)
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve...girls are guy's weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.(La la la rin...  LoL)
33. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him
wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting(Got that right!  Di ba 'no?)
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty...even for just a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much
pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his
problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.(i'm not against bffs, i have guy bffs too!)
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.(haha-- korek!)
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else. (ung iba uber possesive, pag like nyo lang and di pa kayo wag feeling! =D
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts. (buti nlng may brains ako though i love miniskirts jokes)
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get
the wrong one. (korek ulit)
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys' fantasies are unlimited.(Paano na yung #15?)
47. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but...her weight does!
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too
possessive...so watch out girls!!! (*sigh!)
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they break up
esp. when they've been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved
with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-
been-busted, never been in-love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.
53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.Hehehe... ; ) 
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl...he really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying
"Please come and listen to me"
59. Guys don't really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy started to talk seriously, listen to him.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but
court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure
unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms...no kidding!
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
72. Don't be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of
rejection.
73. Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be
surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than
attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is
about girls.
76. Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable
decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he jus tried to be polite.
79. Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them,
they'll realize they're wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.(Uhm ang daming girls na ganyan dito ah?)
83. Guys' weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed on you or he's criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him. 
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your
boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your
boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain...when he cries in
front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only
flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.(hmm i don't think so, you can tell nmn if he's just playing around or not) 
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intention if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things...not their hair!(Sorry Oleeburr!  LoL)
97. If someone says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.(Duh...  Yiheeee!!!!!)
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your
relationships.(Judgmental ata 'to masyado???)


REMINDER: Test a guy first if he's really the one. Some are just pretending to be the one. 

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10 Things That Are Proven To Make Men Fall Out Of Love

babygem0321
11/03/2009 06:05:00 PM

* from my friend Jones' blog ( peace gurlie) 



There are many things men and women can do to annoy each other. Some are very small and, in the overall picture, aren't that important. But there are some things a woman can do to make a man completely fall out of love with her. Here are ten of the things you should avoid if you don't want to lose your man.

1. Do not pretend to be something you are not. A lot of women fake interests or even lie about their age or their past to impress a man. If he falls for you and then later finds out you have stretched the truth (and he probably will find out), he is not going to be happy.

2. Being needy. While a man does want to feel needed by his woman, a needy woman who cannot seem to have a life without him will quickly smother him.

3. Never listening, always talking. Some women chatter incessantly, and if you are one of them, you will need to learn how to listen to your man every now and then. He likes to have some time to tell you about his day and his interests.

4. Being financially irresponsible. Nothing can doom a relationship faster than spending his money frivolously. If you have reached the point in your relationship that you are sharing money, keep to the budget you have both agreed on.

5. Always making it about you. A relationship is a partnership, and you have to be sure you give him equal time. Let him plan some events, and sometimes, go out of your way to do something for him.

6. Playing emotional games. No one likes to have their feelings toyed with. If he is not the one for you, do not string him along, especially not if he says he loves you.

7. Moving too fast. If he is not ready to live together or get married, do not push the issue. Nothing turns a man off faster than a woman who nags all the time.

8. Being inflexible. You have to give a little in any relationship. Be ready to give in to him on some issues. If it is important, the two of you can discuss it. If it is trivial, do not make it a big issue.

9. Being jealous. He may have other female friends. That is allowed, just like you can have male friends. Do not get jealous over them, especially if he is known them longer than he has known you.

10. Expecting him to fawn over you all the time. He loves you. Do you really need him to be with you constantly or always buying you things? His love and his commitment are a huge gift from him already.

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considerable and unconsiderable types of CHEATING?

babygem0321
9/14/2009 02:25:00 PM

( as i've read on an on-line MAG)

Porn

I'll be the first to admit that I own so much porn that I have "organizing sessions" where I delete and file it on the computer. Guys are very matter-of-fact about porn, and it's part of our lives before we ever get into a serious relationship.

It becomes an issue when porn becomes a bigger part of someone's sex life than their significant other. An old girlfriend of mine didn't have sex as much as I wanted to, but I didn't confront her. I ended up turning to porn instead. It probably would have been more productive to confront her in a constructive way, but i took a different way out. But, because porn helps satisfy sexual urges, one could argue that this alternate source of release helps prevent cheating.

An "Online Companion"

Suppose your significant other meets someone online. They begin communicating more and more, and eventually it gets romantic. This might even graduate to phone conversations or a clandestine meeting.

Connecting with another person romantically, even if it begins online, is a form of cheating in my book. The very nature of building a relationship through conversation adds a spiritual/mental component to the relationship beyond physical attraction.

Seeing An Ex

This has a lot to do with how much your significant other knows. Plenty of exes remain in our lives as friends, but it becomes an issue when we see them in secret. Even if nothing serious happens, there is potential for old flames to rise again. And, if it's totally innocent, there's no reason to avoid telling your significant other that you are hanging out with your ex.

A "Work Spouse"

My married friend was telling me about a person at work they'd "love to have sex with". They work together on many projects, get drinks after work, and have become close personal friends. In work situations, it's inevitable that people will get close. They have a lot in common, feel the same pain from the annoying boss, and go to one another for support in the office and in life outside the office.

The "work spouse" is a common phenomenon. My friend Margaret is my "work wife" but it's completely platonic. We argue like husband and wife. She supports me with advice and even fixed a hole in my jeans once (I really can't sew). As long as it remains platonic, "work spouse" relationships are rewarding and strong.

Fantasizing

Fantasizing/thinking about other people is natural and there's nothing we can do about it. There are thoughts, then words, then actions. As long as thoughts remain thoughts and don't evolve into actions, there shouldn't be a problem. I'm sure all of my girlfriends have thought of someone else while we were dating. I just do my best not to worry about it and, as long as I don't know about it about I'm fine (unless she's fantasizing about someone annoying like John Mayer- I just can't have that).

It's easier, sometimes, to vent to someone else instead of addressing a difficult issue about your relationship with your significant other. It's a good policy to steer clear from speaking to friends of the opposite gender about weaknesses in your relationship. Your best friend should also be your significant other, so why not bring up deep issues concerning your relationship directly to your them and work on it all together?

What other activities would you say could be considered cheating, but may not be considered cheating? Which of the above would you consider cheating?

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indeed I cried for days...

babygem0321
7/24/2009 03:30:00 PM

hehe..siguro nga dati sober ako pero ngaun hindi na ngayon.. oo di ko na iniisip or make that hindi ko na siya naiisip simple lang kasi siguro okay na tlga ko ngaun.. hmm noon pa man kahit na wala pa si LOve sa buhay ko

truly, there's somebody whom they call "somebody you will meet that is there to mess up your life"

i'm just glad it's over...

a lot of lessons learned
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etong sayo! :)
It's almost like you had it planned It's like you smiled and shook my hand and said "Hey, I'm about to screw you over, big time"

And what was I supposed to do? I was stuck in between you and a hard place We won't talk about the hard place
But I don't blame you anymore That's too much pain to store

It left me half dead Inside my head And boy, looking back I see I'm not the girl I used to be When I lost my mind It saved my life It's how you wanted it to be It's like you played a joke on me And I lost a friend In the end

And I think that I cried for days But now that seems light years away And I'm never going back To who I was

Cause I don't blame you anymore That's too much pain to store It left me half dead Inside my head And boy, looking back I see I'm not the girl I used to be When I lost my mind It saved my life I think that I cried for days But now that seems light years away

And I'm never going back To who I was Cause I don't blame you anymore That's too much pain to store It left me half dead Inside my head And boy, looking back I see I'm not the girl I used to be When I lost my mind It saved my life That life seems like light years away Light years away

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people change

babygem0321
6/03/2009 05:48:00 PM

Do you actually think that people's attitude do really change for the better. I just don't know!

right now i think some people's attitude can no longer be taken out of their system.. okay okay i'll just go straight to the point. Do you think a flirt will always be a flirt? Cheaters will always be a cheater?

wah i'll just stop stressing about this issue now.. i just feel so pissed off now... grrr

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meet the parents

babygem0321
6/02/2009 05:04:00 PM

phew.. CJ was just able to meet my parents (well just my mom last Sunday) i was nervous. as in if you don't know it yet, di tlga ko ngpapakilala ng BF sa parents ko unless malaman nlng nila sa iba. But since things are really getting so deep and serious for me and my love, we decided to take this step and Settle ALL THE CONFLICTS about our relationship. Thankful ako sa kanya because right from the start, he always see to it that everything will be straighten up. He never let me feel so bothered about everything and he's always there to remind me that "every little thing's gonna be alright" ( oh di ba bob marley lang :P)

i won't go into details about all the things that he did for me anymore. For me every little sacrifice that he did for me will always be cherished and appreciated by baby ( and that's me).

Wala lang I just feel so contented as of now... hmmm speechless ng konti hehe

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to the next level :p

babygem0321
5/26/2009 12:48:00 PM

hiyah! back on bloggin'.

Came from a loong weekend. Still sleepy and it's queueing like hell. I don't know what to do. I got no Money to spare anymore lol.. ayaw ko galawin ang savings ko. ALmost been sick for a month that's why wala yata ko sswelduhin. SIgh!

love and i talked about taking this relationship to the next level.. aba may ganun!?? hehe

I will introduce him to my parents na ( nyee katakot) knowing my father's furious about guys. panic! panic!. Anyways i'm still happy and excited because I know we can handle this, i can handle this with great GUy by my side. We need to settle everything now because we have a lot of plans and we're trying to accomplish them as much as possible.

hmm.. wait and see :)

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It’s time to break up if you have…

babygem0321
5/22/2009 06:10:00 PM

1. An abusive relationship. If you are in an abusive relationship, get out now! It doesn’t matter if you ‘think’ you are still in love with him (or her) or ‘know’ you are in love with her. Get out now, and after, file a police report for a restraining order.



2. No trust. Trust is the most important part in any relationship, so if you don’t have it, it’s time to break up.



3. Found someone else. Although not always on purpose, sometimes we find another person — perhaps a friend or colleague who we are interested in. If this is you, talk about it. Usually, interest in someone else means you aren’t getting everything you want out of your current relationship. If talking about it doesn’t help, it’s time to break up and start something new.



4. Loss of interest. Many couples lose interest in their partner, not only sexually, but also as a friend. If you cannot talk to your significant other, it is definitely time to break up.



5. No future together. Relationships without a future is a train-wreck waiting to happen. If you want to be friends with benefits, fine. Be friends with benefits. However, if you want a real relationship but don’t have a future together, get out now.



Of course there are more reasons than just these to break up, but if one of these are a problem — talk about it if it’s not serious, but if it is, get out now. Too many teens, and even adults, stay in relationships for the wrong reason. Sometimes it’s just not to be and we need to realize what is best for us, and sometimes that is being alone… at least for now.

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love notes

babygem0321
5/01/2009 04:58:00 PM

I found this email from my yahoo mail account while I was browsing it while waiting for a call. I found this a very touching one.

Three fridays ago, our guru on relationships, joe d mango, read a letter to his wife on his popular radio program Love Notes. For the past 11 years, he had been giving advice to people who would write him letters about their personal problems. To the surprise of his listeners that friday, instead of reading one of his usual letters, he read one that he had written himself to his wife Bing.
Joe felt that he had to tell his listeners that even someone like him could go through a marital crisis, but that he survived it.
Hereâs how his letter goes.
In our 11 years of marriage it was just the two of us. I never had a close circle of friends and she never had one either. Life for us was just âyou and me,â day in and day out. We were literally sleeping beside each other for 11 years. It came to point that there was nothing more interesting to talk about. I was aware I was doing that but I never did anything about it. We were so close yet it seemed like we were so distant. Then came her new circle of friends.
They recently had an elementary and high school reunion. Remember her persistent suitor since elementary days? He was there. We already had four daughters and the guy had four kids of his own. They exchanged phone numbers. They started to text each other and this bothered me. a big part of it was insecurity and other part was that she once denied that she was texting the guy.
I felt bad because she started hiding things from me. Then the guy asked her if they could meet for lunch. It became a source of tension between us. I finally agreed, but before that, I told her that I felt that I was going through the same pain again. I have seen so many stories like this. If you told me the first part of the story I would already know where it would lead to.
Bing accused me of being a âknow-it-allâ person. But deep in my heart I knew where she was heading. Why would a married guy see a married girl unless it was for business or professional reasons? Finally, even if it was against my will, I drove her to the meeting place.
While I was waiting at the radio station, I wanted to call her but knew it wasnât proper. So I just waited for her to tell me how their meeting went.
When she related to me what happened I felt that she was keeping the other details. I was afraid to ask because I wasnât prepared to accept her answers. I told her that it would be best if that was their last meeting. She got mad and told me that I was starting to
control her life.
The following day, I saw a small, torn piece of paper that had the words, âlose youâ in the trash can at home. I started picking up the pieces of paper and putting them together. She had written: âFelt sad because I felt that this will be our last meeting.â âWanted to hug youâ¦â Before I could figure out what the third one was, Bing was already at my back. She wanted to get the torn pieces of paper back. She said it was private property. We decided to talk.
By then, I was able to figure out the third line: âNot sure if afraid to lose you.â She had crossed it out and beside it, she had written, âWanted to cry.â
That was what hit me. How could you lose something thatâs not even with you yet? That was a confirmation that she was getting emotionally attached to the guy. We fought because she didnât want to admit it. She said that what she had written was all about friendship and not about love. For the first time in our marriage she asked for freedom from me. For 11 years we were always together, and now this.
She had discovered her own little world and wanted to explore it. I didnât want to give it to her but finally I gave in. I told her that she could do anything she wanted and not worry about how I would feel. In fact, I told her that I was planning to leave her and kids for a while so we could give each other the chance to be alone. We decided to give the new arrangement a try.
The following day, Thursday, I went to work early and she texted me. I never answered back. When I didnât respond, she called me. She said, âIâm sorry. I love you and I miss you.â For the first time in our mariage I said, âI love you and I miss you tooâ with tears in my eyes.
I realized how much I loved her but I also knew how much she wanted her freedom. When I arrived at the station I asked for a leave. My boss advised me to think it over, but he said that he would allow me to go on leave. After letting it all out I felt relieved. It was the first time in my life that I asked for advice about our relationship.
While I was talking with my boss, a messenger arrived with 12 white roses arranged in a basket. It came from Bing. Then a text message on my cellphone came, âI know that no material things can ease the pain that youâre feeling right now, but these flowers signify my pure and sincere intentions.
Iâm really sorry. Please forgive me.â
Still, a question continued to bug me: âIâm giving you the freedom. Will you choose to stay or go on?â I read the card, and it had the answer to my question: âDear Dad, I finally realized that I made a very big mistake in choosing a newfound friendship at the expense of our long-time friendship. Please forgive me. I will always love you.â
Bing called the guy and told him that she wanted to end the friendship. He said that they could just text or call each other.Bing said that there was no need.
We had dinner and talked up to 1 am. It was like getting married all over again. We lost each other and found our way back. I do not want to go through the same pain again.
Friday came and it was the first time in the history of Love Notes that I couldnât do Love Notes. I scheduled a replay. When I was at the station at 9am, I composed a letter to Bing. I was asking myself, should I read this or do a replay? I chose to read the letter. It is not unusual to hear people say âI love you becauseâ¦,â but this story has shown us that the deeper and greater love is having to say I LOVE YOU IN SPITE OF

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