to the next level :p

babygem0321
5/26/2009 12:48:00 PM

hiyah! back on bloggin'.

Came from a loong weekend. Still sleepy and it's queueing like hell. I don't know what to do. I got no Money to spare anymore lol.. ayaw ko galawin ang savings ko. ALmost been sick for a month that's why wala yata ko sswelduhin. SIgh!

love and i talked about taking this relationship to the next level.. aba may ganun!?? hehe

I will introduce him to my parents na ( nyee katakot) knowing my father's furious about guys. panic! panic!. Anyways i'm still happy and excited because I know we can handle this, i can handle this with great GUy by my side. We need to settle everything now because we have a lot of plans and we're trying to accomplish them as much as possible.

hmm.. wait and see :)

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It’s time to break up if you have…

babygem0321
5/22/2009 06:10:00 PM

1. An abusive relationship. If you are in an abusive relationship, get out now! It doesn’t matter if you ‘think’ you are still in love with him (or her) or ‘know’ you are in love with her. Get out now, and after, file a police report for a restraining order.



2. No trust. Trust is the most important part in any relationship, so if you don’t have it, it’s time to break up.



3. Found someone else. Although not always on purpose, sometimes we find another person — perhaps a friend or colleague who we are interested in. If this is you, talk about it. Usually, interest in someone else means you aren’t getting everything you want out of your current relationship. If talking about it doesn’t help, it’s time to break up and start something new.



4. Loss of interest. Many couples lose interest in their partner, not only sexually, but also as a friend. If you cannot talk to your significant other, it is definitely time to break up.



5. No future together. Relationships without a future is a train-wreck waiting to happen. If you want to be friends with benefits, fine. Be friends with benefits. However, if you want a real relationship but don’t have a future together, get out now.



Of course there are more reasons than just these to break up, but if one of these are a problem — talk about it if it’s not serious, but if it is, get out now. Too many teens, and even adults, stay in relationships for the wrong reason. Sometimes it’s just not to be and we need to realize what is best for us, and sometimes that is being alone… at least for now.

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stormy weather

babygem0321
5/07/2009 11:24:00 AM

One stormy Thursday morning,i was at work, I realized that I'm in deep pain LITERALLY...

My lower tummy aches and my back hurts like hell. Well as usual and as expected, my monthly dilemma's back - "DYSMENORRHEA". Yes, after a freaking PMS (premenstrual syndrome) attack, eto akot namimilipit nanaman sa sakit. Hindi ko na alam gagawin ko. I've been out from work and was sent back home. I miss CJ but i don't miss taking calls ( hehe).

The moment I got home I slept, woke up at 5am and read a text from CJ ... I got his car key and ID daw WTF! kawawa naman lovekoh.
plus the bad news that came from RI ( our main office in US). There'll be a shutdown daw because of the worldwide crisis. Does this smell trouble for everyone of us in APC? I don't know much about it but just hearing this makes me so much bothered. I dont want to resign and not be with him :( . I don't want to look for another job and do a lot of adjustments again.

HAY ewan ko na di na yata talaga tayo mauubusan ng problema. Thank GOD mylove is always there beside me. I always feel safe and at peace. :P

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love notes

babygem0321
5/01/2009 04:58:00 PM

I found this email from my yahoo mail account while I was browsing it while waiting for a call. I found this a very touching one.

Three fridays ago, our guru on relationships, joe d mango, read a letter to his wife on his popular radio program Love Notes. For the past 11 years, he had been giving advice to people who would write him letters about their personal problems. To the surprise of his listeners that friday, instead of reading one of his usual letters, he read one that he had written himself to his wife Bing.
Joe felt that he had to tell his listeners that even someone like him could go through a marital crisis, but that he survived it.
Hereâs how his letter goes.
In our 11 years of marriage it was just the two of us. I never had a close circle of friends and she never had one either. Life for us was just âyou and me,â day in and day out. We were literally sleeping beside each other for 11 years. It came to point that there was nothing more interesting to talk about. I was aware I was doing that but I never did anything about it. We were so close yet it seemed like we were so distant. Then came her new circle of friends.
They recently had an elementary and high school reunion. Remember her persistent suitor since elementary days? He was there. We already had four daughters and the guy had four kids of his own. They exchanged phone numbers. They started to text each other and this bothered me. a big part of it was insecurity and other part was that she once denied that she was texting the guy.
I felt bad because she started hiding things from me. Then the guy asked her if they could meet for lunch. It became a source of tension between us. I finally agreed, but before that, I told her that I felt that I was going through the same pain again. I have seen so many stories like this. If you told me the first part of the story I would already know where it would lead to.
Bing accused me of being a âknow-it-allâ person. But deep in my heart I knew where she was heading. Why would a married guy see a married girl unless it was for business or professional reasons? Finally, even if it was against my will, I drove her to the meeting place.
While I was waiting at the radio station, I wanted to call her but knew it wasnât proper. So I just waited for her to tell me how their meeting went.
When she related to me what happened I felt that she was keeping the other details. I was afraid to ask because I wasnât prepared to accept her answers. I told her that it would be best if that was their last meeting. She got mad and told me that I was starting to
control her life.
The following day, I saw a small, torn piece of paper that had the words, âlose youâ in the trash can at home. I started picking up the pieces of paper and putting them together. She had written: âFelt sad because I felt that this will be our last meeting.â âWanted to hug youâ¦â Before I could figure out what the third one was, Bing was already at my back. She wanted to get the torn pieces of paper back. She said it was private property. We decided to talk.
By then, I was able to figure out the third line: âNot sure if afraid to lose you.â She had crossed it out and beside it, she had written, âWanted to cry.â
That was what hit me. How could you lose something thatâs not even with you yet? That was a confirmation that she was getting emotionally attached to the guy. We fought because she didnât want to admit it. She said that what she had written was all about friendship and not about love. For the first time in our marriage she asked for freedom from me. For 11 years we were always together, and now this.
She had discovered her own little world and wanted to explore it. I didnât want to give it to her but finally I gave in. I told her that she could do anything she wanted and not worry about how I would feel. In fact, I told her that I was planning to leave her and kids for a while so we could give each other the chance to be alone. We decided to give the new arrangement a try.
The following day, Thursday, I went to work early and she texted me. I never answered back. When I didnât respond, she called me. She said, âIâm sorry. I love you and I miss you.â For the first time in our mariage I said, âI love you and I miss you tooâ with tears in my eyes.
I realized how much I loved her but I also knew how much she wanted her freedom. When I arrived at the station I asked for a leave. My boss advised me to think it over, but he said that he would allow me to go on leave. After letting it all out I felt relieved. It was the first time in my life that I asked for advice about our relationship.
While I was talking with my boss, a messenger arrived with 12 white roses arranged in a basket. It came from Bing. Then a text message on my cellphone came, âI know that no material things can ease the pain that youâre feeling right now, but these flowers signify my pure and sincere intentions.
Iâm really sorry. Please forgive me.â
Still, a question continued to bug me: âIâm giving you the freedom. Will you choose to stay or go on?â I read the card, and it had the answer to my question: âDear Dad, I finally realized that I made a very big mistake in choosing a newfound friendship at the expense of our long-time friendship. Please forgive me. I will always love you.â
Bing called the guy and told him that she wanted to end the friendship. He said that they could just text or call each other.Bing said that there was no need.
We had dinner and talked up to 1 am. It was like getting married all over again. We lost each other and found our way back. I do not want to go through the same pain again.
Friday came and it was the first time in the history of Love Notes that I couldnât do Love Notes. I scheduled a replay. When I was at the station at 9am, I composed a letter to Bing. I was asking myself, should I read this or do a replay? I chose to read the letter. It is not unusual to hear people say âI love you becauseâ¦,â but this story has shown us that the deeper and greater love is having to say I LOVE YOU IN SPITE OF

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